Let’s look now at the third principle which is also in Ezr 8:16-17(ESV): Then I sent for Eliezer, Ariel, Shemaiah, Elnathan, Jarib, Elnathan, Nathan, Zechariah, and Meshullam, leading men, and for Joiarib and Elnathan, who were men of insight, and sent them to Iddo, the leading man at the place Casiphia, telling them what to say to Iddo and his brothers and the temple servants at the place Casiphia, namely, to send us ministers for the house of our God.
What is said and how it is said is critical in service. Jesus Christ practiced this. Notice for instance when Jesus asked the disciples to get the donkey for the triumphant entry, He told them in Mk11:3(ESV) If anyone says to you, ‘Why are you doing this?’ say, ‘The Lord has need of it and will send it back here immediately.’” When they obeyed and released the donkey, some opposition had to be overcome by well-spoken words: Mk11:5-6(ESV) And some of those standing there said to them, “What are you doing, untying the colt?” And they told them what Jesus had said, and they let them go. Consider also what happened at the garden of Gethsemane. Jn18:8-9(ESV) Jesus answered, “I told you that I am he. So, if you seek me, let these men go.” This was to fulfill the word that he had spoken: “Of those whom you gave me I have lost not one.” I want you to know Jesus had to speak in this manner to make sure the right outcome came. There are many sincere leaders whose words have hindered rather than helped their ministry. Gideon was harshly accosted by the Ephraimaites when he returned victorious from war. His wise answer calmed situations down (Jdgs8:1-3). Jephthah was also accosted by the Ephraimites after his success at the war front. He was not diplomatic, and a civil war broke out which claimed 42,000 lives (Jdgs12:1-6). We must practice Col 4:6(ESV) Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person. Simply speaking the truth anyhow is not good enough. It needs wise and loving communication. Three sets of soldiers were sent to fetch Elijah. Two sets died by fire called down by Elijah. Tactful speech by the third captain spared his life and the lives of his men (2Kgs1:9-15).
It was wise speaking by his servants that helped Naaman when he was at the verge of losing his miracle under the ministry of Elishah: 2Kgs 5:12-14(ISV) So he turned away and left, filled with anger. But then his servants approached him and spoke with him. They said, "My father, had the prophet only asked of you something great, you would have done it, wouldn't you? Yet he told you, 'Bathe, and be clean...!' So he went down and plunged himself into the Jordan River seven times, just as the man of God had said, and his flesh rejuvenated like the flesh of a newborn child. And he was clean. It was the speaking of the Syrophoenician woman that got her daughter healed; something that her following after and kneeling down before Jesus Christ wasn’t giving her. Mk 7:29-30 (ESV) And he said to her, “For this statement you may go your way; the demon has left your daughter.” And she went home and found the child lying in bed and the demon gone. Let us train ourselves in right speaking. Prov15:23(ERV) People are happy when they give a good answer. And there is nothing better than the right word at the right time.