“Stand by the roads…”If the requirement to hearing from God at the crossroads is first to stand and ask, then we need to know - how shall we stand? How shall anyone stand?
What does the Bible say? Php 4:1(GNB) So then, my friends, how dear you are to me and how I miss you! How happy you make me, and how proud I am of you!—this, dear friends, is how you should stand firm in your life in the Lord. This is how to stand firm! Listen to the instructions following this statement. First: unity. Php 4:2-3(GNB)Euodia and Syntyche, please, I beg you, try to agree as sisters in the Lord. And you too, my faithful partner, I want you to help these women; for they have worked hard with me to spread the gospel, together with Clement and all my other fellow workers, whose names are in God's book of the living. Be in unity, and help those having challenges with working together. We can sometimes be so “right” that we become totally wrong. When I insist on my own way to the point that we can no longer work together, I am not standing. Ever heard of brethren who had a quarrel on the bible theme to choose? One stood on Mt4:4, the other insisted he heard Lk4:4. Check the two passages please. From Ps133 we know God commands blessings, even life evermore, as we walk in unity. Remember that when we work in unity the world will know God sent Jesus. Jn 17:23(MKJV) I in them, and You in Me, that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that You have sent Me and have loved them as You have loved Me. Why do every other thing and yet neglect being in unity as the word of God says? Husband and wife - are you united? If we are not walking in unity, we are not standing. If I am uninterested and aloof when I see brethren walking in strife - how can I possibly be standing?
What more? Php 4:4-5(GNB)May you always be joyful in your union with the Lord. I say it again: rejoice! Show a gentle attitude toward everyone. The Lord is coming soon. At the crossroads, at every point in life, look for and dwell on the hand and purpose of God. And so rejoice in what God is doing, can do and will do. 1Th 5:16(ESV) Rejoice always. Rejoice even in tribulation. And o - be gentle with everyone, especially those who oppose you. 2Tm 2:24-26(ESV) And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant them repentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil…
What again? Php 4:6-7(GNB) Don't worry about anything, but in all your prayers ask God for what you need, always asking him with a thankful heart. And God's peace, which is far beyond human understanding, will keep your hearts and minds safe in union with Christ Jesus. This is a vital part of standing. I will not dwell on it now. Surely we hear on this again and again. It is a part of standing firm.
One other point: Please keep the standards you have lived by up until now. Stand. Php 3:16(GNB) However that may be, let us go forward according to the same rules we have followed until now. You have reached a point where you give tithe before any spending. Do not change that now. You don't bend the truth to pass exams or get money. Don’t stop. Stand