The purpose of prayer Week 19, 2026

 

It was a short clip. I don’t know the producer, but what was said caught my attention: The first purpose of prayer is intimacy, not requests. When intimacy is established, other matters follow. Ps 27:4(ESV)  One thing have I asked of the LORD, that will I seek after: that I may dwell in the house of the LORD all the days of my life, to gaze upon the beauty of the LORD and to inquire in his temple. Do you recall the father’s words when the elder son said, “ You have not given me even a goat to celebrate with my friends”? And he said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours Lk 15:31(ESV). You are always with me. The presence and intimacy were first, and come before material possessions. But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Mat 6:33(ESV)  was taught in the context of prayer, you know. We need to practice that in prayer, really.

But asking is very important, and we must not get disciples to believe that once they worship and give thanks, there is no real need to make requests. Giving the impression that the truly spiritual man makes no request, just worships, and those who request are carnal! You do not have, because you do not ask. Jas 4:2(ESV) 

Yes. That is correct. Jesus specifically commands us to ask; that is the way to receiving.  Jn 16:24(ESV)  Until now you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be full. And those who are very intimate with God and manifest the fruit of the Spirit in great abundance still need to ask. Jn15:16(ESV)  You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you that you should go and bear fruit and that your fruit should abide, so that whatever you ask the Father in my name, he may give it to you. I agree, but when intimacy is established with God, how and what we ask for changes - in their order and in their content. And we become transformed the more into His image.

What exactly do you mean?

You see, those who were commanded to pray for labourers in Mt 9:37, 38(ESV)  Then he said to his disciples, “The harvest is plentiful, but the laborers are few; therefore pray earnestly to the Lord of the harvest to send out laborers into his harvest.” are sent out as labourers in Mt 10:5(ESV)  These twelve Jesus sent out, instructing them, “Go...” As they prayed, “Thy kingdom come, Thy will be done on earth,” by praying for labourers, they were sent out to be the labourers. Transformation is taking place in them.

And are their needs met when they are thus?

Have you considered Solomon’s prayer? His request to God centred on purpose. God’s purpose for bringing him to the throne. 1Kgs3:9(ESV)  Give your servant therefore an understanding mind to govern your people, that I may discern between good and evil, for who is able to govern this your great people?” Now that pleased God, and God granted him things he didn’t ask for. 1Kgs 3:13(ESV)  I give you also what you have not asked, both riches and honor, so that no other king shall compare with you, all your days. God doesn’t have favourites. He will do the same with you.  Stop using prayer as a tool to get what you want from God and turn it into a tool to make you what God wants. Ps 37:4(ESV)  Delight yourself in the LORD, and he will give you the desires of your heart.